Valentine’s Day cookies spread the love, too

Toffee Bars, Almond Roca Bars

Almond Roca Bars or Toffee Bars are a sweet way to show the love. Photo by Laura Groch

December was a bit of an unsettled month for us. A death in the family meant our Christmas celebrations were low-key.

Homebaked cookies are my usual contribution to holiday cheer. But I didn’t bake for myself, or friends, or family. Missed the annual cookie exchange, too.

But we did have some very nice homemade cookies at the funeral reception, Continue reading


Dozens of reasons to enjoy a cookie exchange


Above: The assorted cookies I brought home from our recent cookie swap. For a cookie swap, you bake only one batch but end up with a beautiful assortment of delicious cookies. (Photos by Laura Groch) 

If you’ve never taken part in a cookie exchange before, let me recommend this enjoyable way to share the holiday spirit. And it’s not too late in the season to organize one.

I don’t remember where I first heard about cookie exchanges or cookie swaps, but I do know that the idea immediately struck me as a winner: Bake one batch of cookies, get together with a group of friends, and divvy up the cookies. Go in with snickerdoodles, come out with chocolate chip, peanut blossoms, rugelach, Mexican wedding cakes and more, depending on the group.

I enlisted my officemates to try it out, and it worked so well that we started a December tradition. Not only was it fun, it was efficient and saved buckets of time when everyone was being pulled in several directions at the holidays. This year found me swapping with another group of friends, who were also pleased with the results.

As I said, it’s not too late for you to enjoy the fun, creativity and rewards of doing a cookie exchange. (How about organizing one for a Saturday-or-Sunday-before-New-Year’s get-together!) All you need are 1) a batch of homemade cookies; 2) a few friends, relatives or colleagues (make sure one of you is good at math!); 3) about 90 minutes to make the exchange in whatever place you designate; and 4) an extra container to put your shared cookies into while others are taking from your batch.

The basic idea is to divide the cookies by the number of bakers, then each one takes that number of cookies from everyone else. So if you have 6 people, you bake, say, 4 dozen cookies (48). Forty-eight is evenly divisible by 6 (6 x 8 = 48). Everyone keeps 8 of his or her own cookies, takes 8 from everyone else’s batch, and you go home with 48 cookies, the same number you brought in, except you now have six different kinds.

At least, that was the way this recent cookie exchange was supposed to work. But I managed to goof up the neat calculations by not counting myself in the group. We really had 48 cookies each to be divided among 7 bakers. (Oy.) So — we instead took 7 each, then divvied up the remainder. Which is what you might have to do, too. (Or you can reverse-engineer it: Choose a number, say 6 cookies apiece, multiply it by the number of cookie swappers, then everyone bakes that amount.)

We used to have as many as a dozen people, and we’d each bake as many as 6 dozen cookies (also a nicely divisible number). Something always happens, though. One person always bakes more, another bakes fewer — recipes are variable, after all, and so is the human hand. But someone else always manages to figure it all out to everyone’s satisfaction.

The cookies don’t have to be fancy — not at all. Of course, if your specialty is an elaborately decorated cookie, go for it. Just don’t be disappointed that others can’t match your baking prowess. Remember, they’re all still tasty cookies!

The one big rule is that the cookies must be homemade. It’s not fair to those who actually made dough and shaped and decorated it (or even just dropped spoonfuls onto a cookie sheet). They put effort into their cookies, no matter how simple (or blobby). It’s just not right to hand over a machine-made cookie in exchange for an individually made little work of art.

And they are all works of art, I can assure you, from the humble oatmeal cookie to the sophisticated palmier. The sight of them arrayed on a plate will gladden your heart as much as anything by Picasso or Renoir or Wyeth.

Or Norman Rockwell, for that matter. Bringing together different people and traditions and recipes to share them with each other is about as American as it gets, in my view — and it also reflects the spirit of the season.

Really, there’s no good reason why the Christmas/Chanukah/Kwanzaa time of year should hold a monopoly on pretty cookies. In fact, we’re already planning a Valentine’s Day cookie exchange.


Above: Cranberry Refrigerator Rounds (OK, they’re a little oblong) are what I made for a recent cookie exchange. (Photo by Laura Groch)

I made this refrigerator cookie for our recent cookie swap, but used cranberries this time instead of apricots. It’s from “Gifts From Your Kitchen,” by Better Homes and Gardens (Meredith, 1976).


1 cup butter or margarine

1 1/2 cups packed brown sugar

1 egg

1/2 teaspoon almond extract

2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

1/2 teaspoon salt

1 cup finely chopped dried apricots (or cranberries)

1/2 cup finely chopped nuts

Cream together butter and brown sugar till light. Blend in egg and almond extract. Stir together flour, baking powder and salt; stir into creamed mixture. Stir in apricots and nuts. Shape into two rolls 1 1/2 inches in diameter. Wrap in waxed paper. Chill well. Cut in 1/4-inch slices; place on ungreased baking sheet. Bake at 350 degrees for about 10 minutes. Makes 6 1/2 dozen.

Notes: I used butter, not margarine, and about 1/4 cup of nuts (I used walnuts) instead of 1/2 cup. A knife will do to chop dried apricots, but I used kitchen shears to chop the cranberries.

(c) copyright Laura Groch 2013

A Sunny encounter at the Farmers Market


Gluten free chocolate chip cookie cups from Sunnyside Kitchen. (Courtesy photo)

Tuesday is farmers market day in Escondido, and there’s almost always a new discovery each week. I was pleased recently to encounter a former co-worker from the North County Times, Kate Carpenter, staffing a booth for her business, Sunnyside Kitchen. Kate offers bite-size cookies, muffins and cakes, and has recently added panini, grilled to order by her husband, Bob. Varieties include Gourmet Grilled Cheese, BBQ Chicken Grilled Cheese, and Vegetarian Mediterranean; prices are $5 to $9. The bite-sized cookies (such as Chocolate Delights, with white chocolate chips and pecans) are $2 for a half-dozen. Gluten-free cookies (like the chocolate chip cookie cups, pictured) are twice as big, so those are 3 for $2. (And she’s got Buckeyes for order through the website!) If you can’t make it to the Tuesday market, try Sundays at the North San Diego Farmers Market at Sikes Adobe across from Westfield North County mall in Escondido. Kate’s cookies are also available at Rock n’ Jenny’s Italian Subs; Diego’s Place; Major Market Escondido; Kettle Coffee & Tea; and Orfila Winery. Visit or email!